Sunday 24 February 2019

What Keeps You Alive?

The Light in You Reflects in your Life.
Okay! To start with, i always had weird ideas about life, but its okay to be weird when the world is already mad.I’m in no way suggesting that being weird will automatically make you great. There are still other factors you have to take on board, but being ‘weird’ is a step in the right direction.
So, next time someone says “You’re weird”, thank them and continue to find people who appreciate your weirdness without ever demanding that you change.

here’s all the things that people say is weird about me:
– I have no interest in putting down or blaming other people for my problems in life
– When I hear good music, my feet just start moving, regardless of where I am and who’s watching
– I have no desire to get drunk and be all dolled up.(But it may change,Who cares!?)
– I like dogs!(More than humans)
– I laugh at really serious situations.(Like really Loud ,cant help it though) 
– I find the idea of keeping it all to you SO STUPID.
– I don’t like to go to parties and have pointless conversations about things I don’t care about, just because ‘everyone else is doing it’. If I’m going to talk to someone, it’s because there’s something I want to know or something I want to know about them. If there’s nothing I wanted to know, I would rather sit in silence.
– I have no desire to hang out with people, just because that’s what you’re supposed to do. If we’re not doing something productive and I’m not moving forward with my life, I have no desire to be part of that world.
– I don’t like to follow social norms. Social norms are often the most boring, pointless and useless things possible.
– I will never get a job just to fit in.
– I think fashion trends are pointless and don’t impact upon my life
– I don’t care how ‘cool’ something is, if I don’t like it, I’m not going to do it
– I like to write long lists
– That often contain irrelevant points,talk alot about it finally acknowledge that was pointless.
– I touch  people  who are close to me and that unknowingly shred out their skin.(I am SORRY)
– I make lots of noise when I eat. Lots of “oh… Mmmm… Ahh….” when the food deserves it
– I believe doing what’s right is more important than looking good
This is where I got stuck. Here’s what my bestie contributed to the list:
– I don’t like sweet.
– I don’t care about proving things to people unless they are mine.
– Pretty much transparent with my feelings.
– I’m very particular about cooking to the point of isolation
– I have a really weird laugh
– I speak really loudly and lean forward when I’m talking about something that I care about
– Play on my phone when someone I don’t care about is talking
– I spend a lot of time figuring out the ‘best’ way to do something so I can be the winner, even when there’s no best way to do it. I get really full on sometimes
– I want to get married when in stress
– I don’t like cats.
– I don’t drink tea.
– I want our kids to be martial arts experts (No, no kids yet)
– I have n number of personal diaries. 

And then i noticed the valid,sane me making appropriate points at times, Because it all comes down to what you desire in life and how time lets you reach it as you preach it.
So,Don't you feel you are holding back from desires due to many vague reasons?... Life is not only about desires but as you move forward on your path, you have to take care of many things, so that you can take care of the life around you. Life comes with its daily obligations. You are part of the whole, and thus it’s important for you to serve the life around you.

Hold to your intention, and allow the life to happen. You do what you are accountable for, to achieve your desires, but don’t expect the outside situation, people or event to happen exactly the way you have imagined into your mind.Now, the life brings you the similar people of your interest, and push you further towards your desire.But all this things doesn’t happen in a day.It takes time for your mind to turn the seed of a desire, into a full-fledged thought process, which creates further emotions into your body. When you take actions towards your desire, you come across the people, situations and experiences with your life, that serves you to grow and improve upon your path of desire.
In the process, if you are rigid on the path, and doesn’t accept what life brings to you, than yourself becomes the obstacle. The life has to go through many things to bring something that you really want out of life.Think progressively and find what you want and with whom you want to be with, Make choices,open up and if its not meant to be there are always another option waiting for you.Understand your worth and strive to it.We all have the acumen in us to make happiness, rejoice it and grow getting better day by day.

--Lekshmi S P


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